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Husband left me on the 5th month of pregnancy….?

Question by Milena Hmeleva: Husband left me on the 5th month of pregnancy….?
Has anybody been left by a husband while you were pregnant? How did you overcome this?
My husband left me twice. First time when I was 2 months pregnant (we were not married yet). He left me because I complained too much of being nauseous. And he told all of his friends that I was not an honest woman and it iwas not his child that;s why he left me. But 3 weeks later he came back and proposed. I did not want to take him back because I knew he would leave me again cause they true reason why he does that is because he doesn’t love me and just attached or simly feel bored alone. But I forgave him and we got married, although we never lived togather because his job and parent slive in another city so he travelled back and forth. And now I am 5 months pregnant and he left me again. Found a stupid reason and left. Later called me made an ultimatum: “your mom should not come over ” (my mom lives in another country and planned to come to help me with the baby) . Basically he makes me an ultimatum that he know I will choose my mother and therehow he can say that it was me who made the choice to break up. So No we do not talk. And I think even if I accept his conditions he will leave me again because he DOES not want to be with me.
Are there any other women who went through this too? I need help to be strong enough to live alone with the baby…..and how do I do that?

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Answer by #1 finally here!
your mom will ALWAYS love you, and never make you prove it to her.

tell your husband to F off and get an annulment. Child support for the win!

I’ve heard of one woman who was pregnant with #3, and two days after he left her, she found out she ALSO had gestational diabetes. AND she’d had it with the first baby! I felt a lot less sorry for myself after i met her.

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Why would my husband turn down the woman he had an affair with? When he’s recently been stalking her?

Question by Lila: Why would my husband turn down the woman he had an affair with? When he’s recently been stalking her?
* I asked this last night but removed it, as a few women called the OW names, which TBH is neither here nor there to me, but does not really help my situation.

This is a complex situation.

I DO NOT BELIEVE MY HUSBAND IS A CHEATER BY NATURE, NOR OPPORTUNISTIC. He’s not a Tiger Woods type, out on the prowl, hunting women.

THAT SAID he had a 11-month affair in 2008 and 2009. He did not confess either, I found out by emails and texts between the pair. I also know he BEGGED her not to confirm it to me, and left her a “DON’T TELL MY WIFE, TELL HER WE WERE JUST JOKING” voicemail, which the woman played to me.

I stayed with him and he cut her off. I then found out that he was still trying to see her. She called me over the summer and told me. I confronted him and he said SHE was chasing HIM.

She then sent me an email which I could not deny (about him chasing her) and I turned to medication.

She also had a court injunction placed on him for harassment because I tried (and failed) to get one on her.

I recently found out he’d been waiting for her just before the December holidays, to ask why she got the law involved, and she was like “umm – your WIFE started it!”

4 weeks later he waited for her AGAIN and this time ran upto her and told her he was disillusioned with me and our marriage, and to “keep me in mind”. They talked for 30 mins.

She thought this was a green light and they met a few days later but he told her he was not leaving me, and she “must have misheard” him. He said he was not angry anymore (about the injunction) but asked her to move on without him.

She then sent him a note to say “why would you say I misheard you when you know damn well what you said to me? Call me if you change your mind. I’m leaving my job so you won’t see me around again!”

He has not responded to this as far as I know, and I think I’m right in this.

Why would he not reply to her? Is he biding his time? But if she’s moving next week, why is he not hounding her before he never sees her again?

In the past he HAS recontacted her even after telling her to move on, but has the injunction finally put him off her? He can’t have loved her that much for that to have killed his feelings?

Why would he stalk her only to tell her the next week he was not interested? (when he was the week before) I am just trying to ascertain where my marriage is headed, as I won’t leave.

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Answer by cateyes
Didn’t I just answer this a couple of hours ago?

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