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Question by Breezey: What does the Scorpio male really want?
For seven months, I have been involved in a casual relationship with a Scorpio male. He has always said he doesn’t want a serious relationship because they always end in fire and flames, he doesn’t want a gf, and he’s been hurt in the past and therefore now he is putting himself first and doesnt want to have to worry about anyone else’s feelings. (We dated for one month, but he backed off when it started to get too serious for him.) We sleep together and I stay over at his place, and sometimes we hold hands when we’re out in public together. We usually see eachother every weekend. He cuddles up to me when we’re in bed and asks me to make a fuss of him by stroking his back (his favourite thing). On two occasions now he has gotten drunk and said things to me which imply he likes me beyond just sex. For example, the first time he said “We could work out/ You’re my gf really, aren’t you/ We’re a great match/ I want you to be my girl but I dont trust you/ I’m jealous of other guys you’ve been with”. Then when I asked him about it he said there was truth in it, but it’s not realistic cause he still doesnt want a committment. Now I should tell you that when this scorpio left me (before we embarked on a casual relationship) I rebounded with someone else. So I have a bf but I’m in love with this scorpio male and just cant keep away from him (he knows I have a bf). On one occasion i couldnt answer his calls cause i was with my bf, and he got really pissed off when i didnt answer and said “whats the point when you never answer anymore. I feel like you are dissing me. I suppose he is your bf” and then when i said i missed him he said “yeah right, you have your bf to keep you company” and was sober at that time. When he’s sober he says he’s not jealous of the bf, but then he goes and gets drunk again, and starts acting jealous. This time he said “You would make the perfect gf, and I’d love to have you as a gf, but if I was unable to give you the amount of attention you require, you’d go to someone else. This is why you have me and your bf, cause you require alot of attention. And I am close to being a bf”. When i told him i have wanted him for the past 7 months and i am with this other guy cause he left me he said “i didnt leave you”. He went on to say he’d be scared of hurting me if i was his gf, and also that he knows i need a sensitive guy who can give me lots of attention, and he knows he’s not good at that. He said “I make a sh** bf. I dont want a gf, most women I generally dislike”-he was burned in his last relationship. He said he’s surprised that i still hang around with him as he consumes alot of alcohol and drugs. And to be honest, this is the kinda guy I would usually stay away from, but i cant. when we used to date, for the first two weeks i was with him he was all over me and soooo sweet, until things got too scary for him and he left me just cause i was getting too clingy and he only wanted to worry about himself and put himself first. He also told me that I turn him on like no other woman has. I do know he isnt in love with me cause he said so. Maybe it’s cause of his dislike for women and not allowing himself to. He is 29 and I’m 22, and his last gf left him as soon as he lost his job, his car and went bankrupt. He refused to call me his gf during the month we were dating, and kept telling me to go with the flow and have fun and see where it leads. But I kept questionning cause I couldnt bare to think i might be wasting time with him for nothing. He even introduced me to his parents back then. So anyway, when he’s drunk he says thinks which make it seem as though he wants more…He also said that maybe in a few years he will regret the fact that he didnt keep me. Would this guy have stayed with me casually for so long if he only wanted sex? What does it seem like he wants to you guys?
I dont know the time of birth, but place of birth is Birmingham UK, and date of birth is 0ctober 29th 1979.

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Answer by U R Terminated
I hate to say it but im a scorpio male and im the same way I am afraid of love I know that sounds shallow but its true i love sex in a relationship i don’t like to sleep around only with a few that i trust this sounds all to familiar i just to be happy why is it so important to have a relationship sounds like you might be rushing things a bit i would say just slow things down

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